James
James and I had a very crazy short life together. I met him back in 2009 and we quickly became best friends
We used to walk around silver Lake Park together on a regular basis and talk about everything. We would spent countless nights staying up late goofing around and joking and many lunch dates going out to eat. He always made me feel beautiful and special and 4 years later told me he loved me and I knew we were supposed to be together. I admired him for how hard he worked and how he wanted to take care of me. He was noble in this way. Always taking care of the people he truly loved. James had the best laugh, and it didn't take much to get him going. His smile was genuine. He loved God and I believe he's one of his angels now. He was stunned and excited when we found out we were having a child and even more happy when he found out it was a girl. He did more nesting than I did and panicked when her room wasn't ready. He held my hand and didn't leave me for a minute when the time came. He made sure both of us were ok always. Even with his struggles, there was never doubt that he loved Everlynn. The first night we brought her home we sat and held each other and just talked about how lucky we were. He would always joke and say we must be two ugly people to have such a beautiful daughter. Last year we went camping together and spent a few days of peace just by ourselves away from the world and it was bliss. James brought things back into my life that had disappeared and was always encouraging me to find those things again. James brought me happiness in many ways and always made me feel special. Even though we struggled and had our down falls and currently weren't together, we agreed to stay friends because we both wanted to be in each others lives and both loved each other very much. I loved/love him and miss him very much. He had been working very hard to be the man he wanted to be and I am sad that we could not have had the life we dreamed of but more sad that his life was taken so soon....but he will forever be with Everlynn in soul, spirit, and heart.
Posted by Chelsea Becker
Tuesday June 27, 2017 at 2:58 am
